The Christmas season can be so romantic: a trip to the Christmas market, a lot of togetherness, leisurely walks to be running to the favorite lake or on the Couch snuggled up while the favorite series.
In spite of so much harmony, it may be, however, that has out of stock the partner in the choice of Gift entirely.
What are the gifts reveal about your relationship or the Partner*in?
What gifts reveal the giver
When somebody gives you something, the one you often, how he sees you or how he would like you. Maybe your aunt has not noticed yet that none of the kitschy novels and more reading, but thrillers or non-fiction books are.
Or maybe your parents still hope you to join her penchant for Opera performances or nursery.
Or you are rather clueless and would rather try with money or vouchers?
If gifts can look deep
It becomes even more interesting in the case of gifts from your or your loved one. He or she should know you really well, and the way you are today and not five years ago.
The following gifts should make you, perhaps, but thoughtful.
Your friend gives you tickets to a football game, so you can get it, hon? Your girlfriend has booked a weekend trip for you – in a city that has always been a shopping spree wanted to?
If you are going to always be for Events are available, the interest is not you, but your Partner, think about whether or not he or she is not only with you, to be alone.
How much you respect each other?
Or your Partner is giving you things that he or she would gladly have? The new cookbook, or a novel that you’re interested in more of less?
Or, you get exactly what you want – maybe even something you did many weeks ago, mentioned: a new equipment for your bike or a book, to which you Appear to have been waiting on for a while.
Whether the gifts fell more to the giver than to the recipient, says a lot about the relationship and about how much your Partner is not listening to you and interested in you.
Education attempts as a gift disguised
It is time that you take something – find your Partner and gives you Jogging shoes or a ten-card for the gym. Only that you love just prefer Yoga are doing and now even Belgian chocolate.
Instead of the Box Sets of your favorite new series of 500 pages capitalism get criticism.
To get new impulses, is one of the advantages of a harmonious relationship. But some people will shoot over the target.
Want you bring someone on the “right track”, instead of loving you as you are? Maybe it is time to speak some clear words.
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*The contribution of “Know your Partner?: The Christmas gift says about the relationship” is published by FitForFun. Contact with the executives here.