Silent night, Holy night – for many people, the days of Christmas mean in addition to the delicious food and family visits much togetherness with the Partner.
Common jaws, together with the apartment decorating and in the evening after the Christmas cozy under a blanket cozy and warm – perfect Christmas could be so easy.
The potential for conflict at Christmas
However, in the rarest of cases, night and the holidays lost Sacred really as planned. Incorrect fixing and small “disasters” quick, the house blessing is temporarily wrong.
If the family visit, everything perfectly prepared to be lurking at every corner, namely, the potential for conflict. But you can deal with a little skill, fortunately.
What many Germans place a special value and what is better to be avoided, shows a recent survey of elite partners 1.687 Singles.
Serenity is seen at Christmas like
The results of making one of The biggest mood killer of Christmas is clearly the excessive use of Smartphones.
What doesn’t matter is also good, If the Partner falls into a perfection delusion and the holidays down to the smallest Detail, plans.
Every Second (48 percent) would consider such a habit as stressful – after all, the Christmas days to Relax in comfort there.
To this Serenity, the eating habits by the way: 42 percent of respondents have no desire to be constantly to the high calorie content of the Treats such as cookies and Fry reminds.
Especially women (45 percent) want to worry about them. You do not disturb it, if your lover has after the holidays a few pounds more on the Ribs.
Men see this, however, is somewhat more critical: 12 per cent were not particularly pleased, after the holidays extra kilos to your partner to determine.
Common anticipation may be
Women in particular have by the way not in the mood for Christmas things. Four out of ten women would it bother you, if the partners can not excite for Christmas.
Even more critical it is, if one of the two prior to the planning of the holidays pushes: 44 percent of women and 29 percent of men have a Problem with that, if the work would only hang on to them.
A rollicking mood anzutrinken, however, it is also not a good idea. Every second woman and every third man can suffer when the partners to the holidays looking to deep into the glass – perhaps even before the assembled relatives.
To force any price harmony by conflict, without exception, avoided, does not help, however more also. 26 percent disturbed by this Hypocrisy.
Better: discrepancies in a calm and factual response, and thereby charged confrontations out of the way.
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Romantic togetherness at Christmas
For many, the romantic togetherness at Christmas is just part of it. In between work phone calls and responding to E-Mails take? Is rather not so good.
Every third Respondent would be upset if the better half would get to Christmas the home office.
Instead, the extra hours should be devoted to more romantic manner in the Partner. Want to include a full hour for the holidays is easy.
The pleasure in remains To, despite the blanket and candlelight, however, this would disappoint 19 percent of women and 32 percent of men.
Not all leisure activities are well
Clearly, at Christmas, the family is the most final in the first place. But that’s why entirely on leisure activities? Many women would not be averse to the good.
Almost every fourth Respondent does not find it good, if your Partner is on the feast days still to go. However, pure Laze, and television is equally bad.
To drive between cookies and roast Goose, a round of sports, is for the most okay, but at least 16 percent of women and 19 percent of men one would encounter on a lack of understanding.
In one of the sexes are, after all, agree: A vacation over the holidays right. Only seven percent of the respondents did not want to leave the family over Christmas.
Cornelia Bertram
*The contribution “Of the due celebration of love: The couple quarrel on Christmas day” is published by FitForFun. Contact with the executives here.